My plan, the point of all this, is to downshift. Downshifting to me is a very loaded term. Some people think it means you have to move and instantly change, others manage to downshift while living in their same home and same city, for me downshifting is a lifelong journey, not a race. There are many people who downshift – leaving city finances behind, who then get into the same rat race in the country – who bring the competitiveness from the market into the village school. This isn’t true downshifting.
I’m on a journey that will eventually include moving to a smaller, rural place. A place where I’ll have hens and rabbits, grow my own fruts & veg and live as much as I can off the earth. It may take a while to reach my destination, but there are practical things I can do now, which include:
1. Stop buying – sounds silly, but honestly one of the biggest shifts that will allow people to downshift, is to stop buying. This means you don’t need to earn as much, to buy as much, instead you can focus on living.
2. Figure out what you can do now – can you get an allotment, can you afford to work 4 days a week, can you join a book group or learn a new skill?
3. Change what & how you eat – start supporting local markets and farmers.
4. Change how you travel – can you reduce the amount of time you spend in the car? Can you walk or get a bus or train instead?
5. Imagine what people did 70 years ago and try to bring in some of those same activities and ways of living into your home. I’ve stopped buying books and joined a library – I went from going to the library 4-6x a year, to going 1-2x a week. I’m learning how to make everything from scratch and I’ve started writing letters again.
6. Look at what you’ll need to be able to reach your downshifting goal. Some people are lucky, they bought when the market was lower and have enough value in their home to downshift significantly within a short period of time. For those of us for whom that isn’t the case – do your sums, what do you need, how long will it take?
7. Think about what you want to do when you downshift and learn how to do it now. Do you want to run a small holding? Then volunteer at a farm, even a city one. Do you want to hand make all your presents and gifts? Then sign up for an arts or craft class now.
8. Don’t try to change too much too soon. I know many downshifters who moved jobs, countries etc in a very short period and ended up going back. First try to downshift without being in a different country from your friends, then do a more radical move.
9. Do what you need to do while in the city or while in your country while you can. I have a friend who downshifted after she adopted a beautiful baby girl. She needed to be in England for the adoption, but downshifted a year later.
10. See downshifting as more than moving, it’s about changes within you that you are capable of. It’s about making the changes in your life that you want to see in the world.
I live in London and I’m downshifting, right now this means I:
- don’t buy things I don’t need
- walk everywhere or take the bus
- am learning new skills
- sponsor local farms so that I can help care for animals
- have worked hard to become happy within myself
- started writing letters again
- stopped gym & swim memberships and started walking
- started making things from scratch
Eventually my downshifting plans are so much greater, but for now, I’m pretty happy with what I have achieved. I’ve gone from thinking “oh I wish I could afford that” to thinking how sickening it was at a friend’s baby’s 1st Birthday party when she was surrounded by about 40 new plastic toys that were gifts from people. All I could think about was not only the waste, but the process by which they were made – I was imagining who made them and what conditions they had to work in. I left the party feeling sick and vowing to make sure I bought fair trade, organically sourced items. I’m working hard to be the change I want to see in the world and loving it!
What about you? Do any of you have plans to live off the earth, to try to leave consumerism behind?
Well written. Thanks. We’re kindred spirits.
By: Linda Baker on August 12, 2008
at 4:57 am
Definitely a motivating post!! I am in the process of changing my life, and my outlook on life! Thanks for sharing your ideas with us!
By: Melissa on August 29, 2008
at 3:44 pm
i love all of this,i want to do all these things…..
but my partner is not comitted……
i keep leaving the country and coming back to town ,to be normal like everyone else ….then i spend all my time sadly thinking of self sufficiency and goats and chickens.
By: bonnie on October 27, 2008
at 9:44 pm
Stopping shopping as a hobby. We used to just shop at the weekends. browse the shops and buy stuff. now I am trying to get rid of the stuff. and have stopped shopping. although we do allow a bit of boot sale action every now and again. mainly clothes for our son!!
By: moyra on November 13, 2008
at 11:08 pm
Nice o hear that even us European are making efforts in our lives to become more frugal. I live in Bordeaux France and I have a hard time finding blogs in French concerning this subject. I really enjoy your site.
By: ARENT on November 15, 2008
at 8:45 am
I just found this blog and it’s a pleasure to read. It’s nice to see someone focusing on the bigger picture instead of obsessing over dollars and cents. (Also thank you for speaking honestly instead of preaching at people)
By: Jennifer on November 28, 2008
at 7:55 pm
The trouble I have with downshifting is all the stuff I’d like to do in the country takes money. Growing food, keeping hens, getting some land.
Ironically I too live in London but I feel it’s pretty easy to live cheaply here because I’ve lots of friends and am fairly easily pleased with my small pad etc. Whereas in the country I think I’d need an acre, and I can’t imagine living so close to people.
Probably I need to mellow a bit further or become a bit wiser I guess?
By: Monevator on November 28, 2008
at 9:32 pm
Moyra, I agree, I hate stuff unless it’s beautiful or useful as William Morris said (I don’t count myself in either category, alas!
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By: Monevator on November 28, 2008
at 9:32 pm
I really enjoy reading your blog!
My husband and I decided to leave Tokyo thinking that was not how we want to live our lives. We set goals and saved money to move out of city. We moved to an sub-tropical island of Okinawa, Japan where we have beautiful beaches. Our life on the island turned out very simple, compare to the life in Tokyo. We walk to a beach and enjoy swimming and watching sunset. We love the way we live now!
By: Miyakojima Tour on March 24, 2009
at 11:07 am
I love your blog…it is more about looking at what’s important than “giving up” what is not. The notes about the baby’s birthday really say it all. This innocent little baby did not ask for dozens of plastic toys, but we adults have been conditioned to think we must give them.
As an aside, today I received a notice at work.( I am new to my employer so I am constantly surprised by the work culture). One colleague is going shopping…so she’s bringing her old clothes to the “closet.” Apparently, everyone is encouraged to bring clothes they tire of to the closet for exchange…this seems to be quite a frugal and responsible way for people to get their shopping “buzz” without cosuming more planetary resources, exploiting underpaid workers, or threatening their own finances!
I’m sure that the “exchange” model has many possibilities for marrying fun with frugal.
By: Anne on March 25, 2009
at 2:38 pm
What a wonderful journey you are on. We should all take this perspective regardless of where we are in life or where we live. A hectic and stressed life leads to sickness and disease. Who wants that? Living deliberately and getting the necessities of life through relationships and following a more harmonious path with the earth is insurance for your health and your life. Good for you!
Jerry
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By: Jerry on April 9, 2009
at 11:30 pm
Just love your approach to life,i too have changed over to a much simpler way of living,and have downsized to living in a tiny little unit, much cheaper than my other one, and i have a lovely little back garden,with lot’s of tree’s,with bird’s and posom’s,i grew my herbs,and some vegee’s in pott’s,bake bread, i live with my darling Cat Abby, i have gone from being a material girl, to now loving to go to the thrift stores,stretching my dollar as far as i can,have nearly stopped eating meat,and eating more vegee’s,and feeling much better for it, Carol
By: Carol Hardie on April 16, 2009
at 7:07 am