The End Of The School Year

I can hardly believe school is over for the summer [dare I admit, I'm more thrilled about this than the children & they are both certainly more than happy to have the break, my daughter especially]. I found the constant demands of school, both financially {I tallied up the optional (ahem!) extras and they come to a grand total of $1463 per child} and time-wise, challenging. I also found one of my children’s teachers a tad too obvious with her dislike of my child. It felt, very often, like she could barely breathe without a comment being made, or adoption being brought up, or her “problems” mentioned. I’m glad that level of scrutiny is over, it made us both on edge. My plan for my daughter’s schooling is a little on the wild side, I’ll blog about that soon. My plan for my son is the local school!

I don’t scrapbook (that stuff is expensive!) so thought today I’d love to share their accomplisments this year – thanks for humoring me.

Daughter
September:
- reading at mid-way through senior kindergarten level (should be in Grade 3)
- not able to print in lines
- not able to cursive write
- able to add 1-20
- comprehension about the SK level 
 - spells phonetically – accuracy about 10% of the words she writes are correct

June
- Is reading at the mid Grade 2 level (moved up 2 years in 9 months!)
- Can add into the hundreds
- Can subtract double digits
- Knows multiplication tables 1-5
- Comprehension is about the end of Grade 1
- Can cursive write and print – though legibility is problematic, hoping OT will be a big help.
-Can formulate sentences, though needs encoragement in order to be consistent and work to the best of her ability. Her sentences are now about 50% grammatically correct.
- Can identify about 50 french words
- Can spell about 90% of the words she writes correctly

Son
September
- Could not hold a pencil
- Only knew his first name
- Did not know how old he was (7!)
- Can only identify 2 letters
- Could not identify numbers  
- Could not read a single word
- Was working at the age of about 2.5  -3 (4 years behind chronological age)

June
- Knows his first and last name, as well as his age
- Can hold a pencil and write
- Can read phonetically
- Can read about 100 site words (I write every word on a Q card and we read them 3 times a day, as well as a new book every single day and re-read the book from the day before as well).
- Can identify numbers 1-50
- Can add up to 20
- Can take away from numbers 12 down
- Can draw
- Can print beautifully (still very slow, but he is so new to it)
- Can cursive write
- Is working about the age 5.5 years (gained 3 years in 8 months!)

What has it taken?  They have both been in a very good school, academically (particularly literacy) rich. I put my daughter back by two grades and my son by three grades (both started age appropriately and it was disastrous). Thankfully, they are both so small they didn’t stand out – though it was a one year only option, sadly (and means school next year needs to be handled a bit differently – more on that later).  They have both needed so much more support than the average child. For example, if a typical child reads a word 30 times it may stick for life, my son will need to read that same word probably 150+ times and even then will not be able to transfer that knowledge to how to spell the word. He will also need some very strong encouragement to stop sounding out a word he knows and just trust he can read it.  My daughter has a language processing delay, so she needs messages very clearly given. While the school was great for her in many many ways, they never really understood why it was she only picked up 2/10 words in an explanation and didn’t do enough differentiation to help her understand.

For both I’ve homeschooled Saturdays and Sundays for about 4 hrs, plus read hundreds of books and worked hard to have conversations which help their comprehension. Both will be homeschooled for about 4 hrs a day all summer – I have week one lesson plans done and will need to get the rest done soon.

I’m amazed and elated with their progress. We still have far to go, but they are so wonderful and have been working so very very hard! I’m so proud of them both :)

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19 Responses to The End Of The School Year

  1. Bake says:

    You are AMAZING. What lucky, special children. It has brought a tear to my eye to see their accomplishments. I only hope I can be such an inspiring mother to my son too. X

  2. Jo says:

    What a fantastic achievement for both of them, and in such a short time. A reflection of all your hard work and dedication, as well as the school no doubt. How incredibly proud of them you must be. Congratulations to the whole FT family!

  3. kathleen says:

    Such excellent efforts and results from all of you! Big congratulatory hugs all around. :)

  4. Joyful says:

    Your dedication and love have helped the children enormously and they have been a lot of progress. Congrats to all!

  5. slowborg says:

    Your love and dedication has made an incredible difference to your babes! What they have achieved is because you believe in them and love and encourage them and show them they can. You are to be congratulated and cyber-hugged for their MASSIVE improvements! They are wonderful kids and you are a wonderful mum x

  6. Kris says:

    What they said! That’s so much progress in one year, and they’ve done it because they had YOU!

  7. mm1970 says:

    That is a fantastic achievement. I think you are doing an amazing job. My son is 6, and sounds like your son is very close to him in reading abilities (heading into grade 1).

  8. Teresa says:

    What extraordinary progress your kids have made, thanks to your hard work and theirs. I’m sure the good school helped as well, but without a caring parent making that kind of effort, even the best teachers can only do so much.

  9. Leslie says:

    I’m a long time lurker, but just had to say how much I love your blog. You and your children are such an inspiration, and you’ve given me so many ideas as to how I can work with my own children (who were also adopted and have special needs). I’m so impressed with how far your kids have come this past year and so pleased that God saw fit to bring your family together. =)

  10. Joolzmac says:

    What lucky children to have someone so caring and willing to help them get to where they need to be. Congratulations on making the effort to teach them these basic things – you are all now reaping the rewards. Your family rocks!

    Joolz

  11. Elizabeth says:

    FT you are doing a marvelous job! You are a natural!

  12. Jennifer says:

    You have made tremendous progress with your kids, they have worked so hard to get to where they are and you are an amazing parent to help them figure it all out and learn so much in such a short time.

  13. Sonja says:

    Congratulation, to both of your kids and to yourself as well! You’ve done such an amazing job, incredible.
    Best wishes for your summer holiday start :-) )

  14. Dianne says:

    This is such wonderful progress. Your children have worked very hard, and you are a wonderful mother. I love reading your blog as it is very inspiring and gives me many ideas for living a frugal and happy life with my family.

  15. lina says:

    I too am a long time lurker with children of a similar age (son 7 and daughter 9) and a fellow Brit living in Canada too. I just wanted to let you know how touched I am with your dedication and to your children and wanted to congratulate you on the amazing progress they have made as a result. Truly incredible.

  16. mummyto2 says:

    Well done – fantastic progress :)

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